{"id":960,"date":"2020-11-24T09:57:40","date_gmt":"2020-11-24T08:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lk.regionalnidobrovolnickecentrum.cz\/subdom\/lk\/?p=960"},"modified":"2020-12-15T12:19:35","modified_gmt":"2020-12-15T11:19:35","slug":"umirat-mezi-svymi-hospic-svate-zdislavy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lk.regionalnidobrovolnickecentrum.cz\/subdom\/lk\/umirat-mezi-svymi-hospic-svate-zdislavy\/","title":{"rendered":"Um\u00edrat mezi sv\u00fdmi \u2013 Hospic svat\u00e9 Zdislavy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201eVzpom\u00edn\u00e1te na sv\u016fj \u017eivot?\u201c<\/p>\n

\u201eNe, nevzpom\u00edn\u00e1m. Je to, jako bych do\u010detla knihu. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skon\u010dil.\u00a0A byl to p\u011bkn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. A j\u00e1 u\u017e nem\u00e1m chu\u0165 nebo pot\u0159ebu \u010d\u00edst d\u00e1l, ani vzpom\u00ednat na p\u011bkn\u00e9 \u010di smutn\u00e9 kapitoly.\u00a0M\u00e1m pocit konce. Spokojen\u00e9ho, dobr\u00e9ho konce. \u017de u\u017e v\u0161e skon\u010dilo a nic dal\u0161\u00edho nem\u00e1 b\u00fdt. V\u00edm, \u017ee a\u017e m\u00e1 du\u0161e odtud odejde, budu \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1.\u201c<\/p>\n

Tento rozhovor u l\u016f\u017eka um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00ed sta\u0159enky si pe\u010dovatelka a koordin\u00e1torka dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f Alena Male\u010dkov\u00e1 pamatuje dodnes. Ne ka\u017ed\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee odej\u00edt takto sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00fd a ne ka\u017ed\u00e9mu m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v posledn\u00ed chv\u00edli n\u011bkdo nabl\u00edzku. M\u00e1-li rodinu \u010di bl\u00edzk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele, je to snaz\u0161\u00ed. Jsou v\u0161ak i osam\u011bl\u00ed lid\u00e9, nebo ti, kdo p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed do libereck\u00e9ho hospice zdaleka a p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed je nemohou nav\u0161t\u011bvovat ka\u017ed\u00fd den. A pr\u00e1v\u011b za nimi doch\u00e1zej\u00ed dobrovoln\u00edci.<\/p>\n

Jejich po\u010det mi vyrazil dech. \u201eM\u00e1me 63 dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f a p\u011bt \u010dekatel\u016f,\u201c zamysl\u00ed se Alena. \u201eNejmlad\u0161\u00ed je 17 let a nejstar\u0161\u00ed 85.\u201c Dobrovoln\u00edci jsou rozd\u011bleni do t\u0159\u00ed skupin. Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed z nich zaji\u0161\u0165uje chod \u010dajovny.<\/p>\n

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Dobrovoln\u00edci pom\u00e1haj\u00ed na recepci<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

To, \u017ee je v hospici \u010dajovna, mne tak\u00e9 p\u0159ekvapilo. P\u011bkn\u011b za\u0159\u00edzen\u00e1, velk\u00e1, sv\u011btl\u00e1 m\u00edstnost s v\u00fdhledem do zahrady, kter\u00e1 za b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho provozu kyp\u00ed \u017eivotem. Je libo \u010daj, k\u00e1vu, nebo ned\u011bln\u00ed pala\u010dinku? M\u00e1te chu\u0165 na filmovou projekci, pe\u010den\u00ed cukrov\u00ed \u010di koncert harmonik\u00e1\u0159e? Dnes v\u0161ak sed\u00edme v m\u00edstnosti sami, venku je mlhav\u00fd listopadov\u00fd den a kv\u016fli p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fdm karant\u00e9nn\u00edm opat\u0159en\u00edm zeje s\u00e1l pr\u00e1zdnotou. Na Alen\u011b je vid\u011bt, \u017ee j\u00ed to je l\u00edto. T\u011b\u0161ila se v \u010dajovn\u011b tak\u00e9 na pravideln\u00e1 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s hospicov\u00fdmi dobrovoln\u00edky, ale te\u010f je v\u0161echno odlo\u017eeno na neur\u010dito. O to p\u011bkn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bude, a\u017e se pravidla uvoln\u00ed a \u010dajovna znovu o\u017eije.<\/p>\n

Druh\u00e1 skupina dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f obhospoda\u0159uje recepci. Pracuj\u00ed ve dvou sm\u011bn\u00e1ch. Prvn\u00ed dobrovoln\u00edk p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed od osmi do jedn\u00e9, druh\u00fd pak od jedn\u00e9 do \u0161esti. Jsou to lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed u\u017e do b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce nechod\u00ed, to by se nedalo st\u00edhat. I kdy\u017e i tady je v\u00fdjimka. Na recepci vypom\u00e1h\u00e1 jeden p\u00e1n, kter\u00fd je je\u0161t\u011b ml\u00e1d a pracuje ve sv\u00e9m zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed na pln\u00fd \u00favazek. Pracuje ve dvousm\u011bnn\u00e9m provozu, tedy bu\u010f ve dne, nebo v noci, a ve voln\u00fdch dnech p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed sem.<\/p>\n

\u201eDo rozpisu slu\u017eeb se zapisuj\u00ed stejn\u011b jako dobrovoln\u00edci v \u010dajovn\u011b, bu\u010f p\u0159\u00edmo tady, nebo po mailu. Nech\u00e1v\u00e1m na nich, jak \u010dasto cht\u011bj\u00ed chodit, zda dvakr\u00e1t t\u00fddn\u011b, nebo jednou za m\u011bs\u00edc. M\u00e1me tu dokonce i jeden star\u0161\u00ed man\u017eelsk\u00fd p\u00e1r,\u201c p\u0159em\u00edt\u00e1 Alena o recep\u010dn\u00edch. Jejich pr\u00e1ce nen\u00ed snadn\u00e1. Nejde jen rutinn\u00ed \u00fakony spojen\u00e9 se zapisov\u00e1n\u00edm n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv, lid\u00e9 za p\u0159ep\u00e1\u017ekou \u010dasto slou\u017e\u00ed jako psychick\u00e1 podpora pro n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy. Pro nikoho z n\u00e1s nen\u00ed snadn\u00e9, kdy\u017e n\u00e1m um\u00edr\u00e1 n\u011bkdo bl\u00edzk\u00fd a ne v\u0161e se d\u00e1 probrat se zdravotnick\u00fdm person\u00e1lem. \u010casto je \u010dlov\u011bk na recepci t\u00edm prav\u00fdm, kdo n\u00e1s ochotn\u011b vyslechne a \u0159ekne p\u00e1r mil\u00fdch slov.<\/p>\n

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Za hezk\u00e9ho po\u010das\u00ed se k setk\u00e1n\u00edm vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 i zahrada<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

T\u0159et\u00ed skupina dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f chod\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo na pokoje k um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00edm. \u201eJsou to ti nejhlub\u0161\u00ed, r\u00e1di p\u0159em\u00edtaj\u00ed o \u017eivot\u011b,\u201c uva\u017euje koordin\u00e1torka nahlas. \u201eZ t\u011bch lid\u00ed jde n\u00e1dhern\u00e1 energie.\u201c Posed\u00ed s um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00edm, zahraj\u00ed si spole\u010dn\u011b \u0161achy, pobav\u00ed se o d\u011btech \u010di zahr\u00e1dce, poskytnou oby\u010dejn\u00fd lidsk\u00fd kontakt t\u011bm, jejich\u017e bl\u00edzc\u00ed jsou daleko.<\/p>\n

Pokud \u0159ekneme, \u017ee pr\u00e1ce dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f d\u011bl\u00e1 sv\u011bt kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm, plat\u00ed to n\u011bkdy i doslova. Do hospice doch\u00e1zej\u00ed tak\u00e9 dv\u011b d\u00e1my kade\u0159nice, kter\u00e9 zadarmo st\u0159\u00edhaj\u00ed klienty p\u0159\u00edmo na pokoj\u00edch. Dal\u0161\u00ed lid\u00e9 pom\u00e1haj\u00ed p\u0159i jednor\u00e1zov\u00fdch akc\u00edch, t\u0159eba kdy\u017e m\u011bl na n\u00e1dvo\u0159\u00ed koncert houslista Jaroslav Sv\u011bcen\u00fd.<\/p>\n

B\u011bhem jarn\u00ed vlny pandemie pot\u0159eboval hospic v kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 dob\u011b velk\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed rou\u0161ek, kter\u00e9 se daly jen obt\u00ed\u017en\u011b sehnat. \u201eJedna pan\u00ed, co \u0161ije pro divadlo, u\u0161ila p\u0159es v\u00edkend pro hospic sto rou\u0161ek. Jin\u00e1 pan\u00ed na\u0161la doma dv\u011b velk\u00e1 klubka tkani\u010dek a v\u011bnovala n\u00e1m je ve chv\u00edli, kdy byly tkani\u010dky do rou\u0161ek vykoupen\u00e9. Rou\u0161ky \u0161ili i dal\u0161\u00ed dobrovoln\u00edci a nosili n\u00e1m je. Ka\u017edou chv\u00edli n\u011bkde n\u011bjak\u00e9 p\u0159inesl. Ne\u010dekala jsem to, byla to takov\u00e1 t\u0159e\u0161ni\u010dka na dortu.\u201c<\/p>\n

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Koordin\u00e1torka dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f Alena Male\u010dkov\u00e1 v pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9 \u010dajovn\u011b<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Tak\u00e9 Alena za\u010d\u00ednala v hospici jako dobrovolnice. Je in\u017een\u00fdrka a po patn\u00e1cti letech str\u00e1ven\u00fdch prac\u00ed v automobilce si p\u0159\u00e1la d\u011blat n\u011bco, co by ji v\u00edce napl\u0148ovalo. Nejd\u0159\u00edv sem doch\u00e1zela ve voln\u00e9m \u010dase, ale kdy\u017e se objevila nab\u00eddka pracovn\u00edho m\u00edsta, dlouho nev\u00e1hala, i kdy\u017e finan\u010dn\u00ed podm\u00ednky se s automobilkou nedaj\u00ed srovnat. \u201eZ\u00e1jemci o dobrovolnictv\u00ed v \u010dajovn\u011b \u010di na recepci jsou zau\u010deni zku\u0161en\u011bj\u0161\u00edm dobrovoln\u00edkem, ti, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed pracovat u l\u016f\u017eka, musej\u00ed nejprve absolvovat dev\u011bt hodin \u0161kolen\u00ed,\u201c popisuje p\u0159\u00edpravu pomocn\u00edk\u016f. Nejde jen tak p\u0159ij\u00edt a za\u010d\u00edt n\u011bco d\u011blat. \u010clov\u011bk si mus\u00ed s\u00e1m v sob\u011b vyjasnit mnoho v\u011bc\u00ed, p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah ke smrti. A to v na\u0161\u00ed kultu\u0159e, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 sklon odsouvat nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 a bolestiv\u00e9 v\u011bci kamsi do podv\u011bdom\u00ed, rozhodn\u011b neu\u0161kod\u00ed. T\u0159eba to nen\u00ed jen tak, \u017ee my pom\u00e1h\u00e1me svou p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00edm, ale t\u0159eba pom\u00e1haj\u00ed tak\u00e9 um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00ed n\u00e1m uv\u011bdomit si, \u017ee i n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot jednou skon\u010d\u00ed a je t\u0159eba jej pro\u017e\u00edt smyslupln\u011b.<\/p>\n

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\u201eVzpom\u00edn\u00e1te na sv\u016fj \u017eivot?\u201c \u201eNe, nevzpom\u00edn\u00e1m. Je to, jako bych do\u010detla knihu. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skon\u010dil.\u00a0A byl to p\u011bkn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":961,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dobrovolnicke-organizace-a-programy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t